DEIB is Not…..
DEIB is NOT... A one-time workshop or event A fad or passing trend Accepting everything Losing your values Self-censoring Sacrificing your own identity Just for marginalized groups About quotas or…
Leadership Actions Shape Organizational DNA!
There’s no such thing as “I’m just an exec, I’m just here to do my job.” As a leader, your behaviour is synonymous with organizational culture. Consequently, organizational culture stands…
Change: The Uninvited Guest That Can Break You or Make You!
Change is all around us—trees grow, new gadgets hit the shelves, and kids magically turn into adults. We’ve learned to accept these changes as part of life’s rhythm. But when…
Life is Not Black & White
And yet, we put ourselves under soooo much pressure to be on the positive end, always!!! It's either we are: * Positive and upbeat or negative and low energy *…
You Are Great. Fullstop.
Have you ever noticed how external stuff gets way more attention than the inside work? I suspect it's because it’s easier to see and measure things like landing a new…
Stuck in a Career Slump? What’s Next Might Surprise You!
Ever feel like your career is on autopilot? You’re cruising along, doing the work, but you’re not really steering the plane anymore. It can feel like you’re just coasting through…
Remember You are Always Choosing – Consciously or Unconsciously
35,000. That’s the average number of decisions a person makes in a single day! We choose what to eat, what to wear, and how to respond in conversations. Some choices…
Stop Searching Out There: The Secret to standing Out in Your Career is You!
Standing out in your career isn't about finding something "out there" – it's about being yourself. We often think there’s a secret we need to discover or a skill we…
Starting a Business isn’t Always the Answer
It can feel like the great escape we dream of but never actually take. If you’re feeling miserable at work, pause and reflect—what exactly is missing? Is it autonomy?…
Stop Hiding, Start Embracing: Own All of Who You Are!
One of the hardest things I’ve ever done is accept the parts of myself I don’t like—the traits I’d rather hide, the habits I’d prefer to fix, and the feelings…
Stop Sucking Up: Master Office Politics without Loosing Your Integrity
There’s a difference between sucking up to influential people and leaning into office politics to advance your career. On the surface, both might look like navigating relationships for professional gain,…
Beyond the Twang: Intelligence Knows No Accent
English is undeniably one of the main business languages that connects people from diverse backgrounds. As professionals, our ability to communicate effectively in English is key. However, it is essential…
Give Someone a Chance!
I have an ask, can you please make a conscious effort to pay it forward? Reflect on the moments when someone took a leap of faith on you and transformed…
7 things I Have Learnt About LinkedIn in 2023
1. Quality Comments Matter: Move beyond generic responses like "great share" or "congratulations." Be the sprinkle of excitement in the conversation, say something interesting. Your chances of being memorable and…
Thank You My Business Partners!!
It's a wrap! Can you believe it? 2023 has come and gone in the blink of an eye – was it the quickest year ever or what? I'm not alone…
It’s Christmas Season, But Not For Everyone.
As the holiday season unfolds, many are immersed in the joy and warmth that Christmas brings. The twinkling lights, festive decorations, and the aroma of freshly baked cookies evoke a…
Feminine Impact Coaching Programme
In a world dominated by patriarchal norms, women are too often encouraged to emulate masculine leadership styles. This pressure can leave women feeling like imposters, reluctant to fully embrace their…
From X to UX: Hear from Career Switchers
Career growth/fulfillment can often mean a career switch. This doesn't always mean that you are starting from zero, its key to reflect on what your transferable skills are. Join me…
Connection fuels DEI
I recently had the privilege of delivering a talk on Diversity, Equity & Inclusion at Leaderex and here's the thing: standing on a stage is half of the work. It's…
Communication Catalyst – Group Coaching Experience
In an increasingly competitive professional landscape, the ability to communicate confidently is a game-changer. Join Maiyo Febi for group coaching sessions to equip you with actionable insights to ensure your…
It’s Okay to Live a Simple Life
I recently posted on LinkedIn about how it's okay to live a simple life, and I was surprised at how many people resonated with the message. In our society, there…
Blaming Everyone Except You!
"They don't give us enough opportunities to grow", "they don't value our contributions," "they don't care about us!" It's easy to blame our employers for our lack of engagement at…
Tools to Find a New Job!
Are you looking for a new job? Or are you thinking about making a career change? If so, there are a few essential tools you need to have in your…
Avoidance is Deadly!
The energy you use to avoid making mistakes is the same energy that blocks your creativity and growth. When you're afraid of failing, you're afraid of being judged, of being…
Hair Conversations
Strangers have stopped me on a few occasions to compliment my dreadlocks and how I just let them hang. I noticed that my "hanging" dreads seemed to be part of…
Stop Wishing. Start Being!
“I wish I didn’t have to see any more,” said Mr. Eye. “I just want to walk like Ms. Leg,” he concluded. “I’m tired of walking,” moaned Ms. Leg, I…
Nature Speaks!
Nature is loaded with the mysteries of how life works. Think about it. Look at the trees, flowers, vegetation etc; everything has its season. Something critical we forget is that…
Make Intuition Your Friend!
Your intuition is always talking to you and if you are like most people, you probably ignore it. Why is this? For the most part, many don’t know when their…
The Balance of Life
"THANK GOD FOR WHAT HE HAS DONE FOR ME!!!" These are words we often say when we get a new job, land a big client or graduate. On the flip…
The Value of Boundaries
“Most of your problems would disappear if you had some solid personal boundaries.”Anonymous WHAT IS A BOUNDARY? A boundary is where you draw the line on how people treat or…
Increasing Wisdom
Wisdom, a word we hardly hear in day-to-day conversations, is often thought of as philosophical or something bestowed on the old and experienced. More common related words we hear are…
Courage: An Enduring Quality
At some point in life, we all go through tough times that stretch our abilities and seem impossible to navigate. To get through these often unpredictable times requires strength, perseverance…
What’s Your Story?
We’re free to give whatever meaning we want to any situation we find ourselves in. In turn, the meaning we give a situation determines how we respond to it. Meaning…
Into the Mind of a Straight Talker
"It's just the way I am, I'm a straight talker. If people get hurt it's their problem" I used to say this often and I'm sure you know someone who…
Hope – A Super Power!
How can you hope for something better when everything is falling apart? Are you not removing yourself from reality? Are you not in denial of what IS? I once read…
Personal Development: The Doorway to Fulfilment
When you hear personal development, what comes to mind? An MBA? Improving your emotional intelligence? A time-management course? It is all of the above, plus more. Personal development is the…
Power In Calmness
Are you worried and scared? You are not alone. The corona virus has many of us in this state. Despite the situation, we still have the power to choose how…
Self-Love in the Workplace
What comes to mind when you think of self-love? A day at the spa? A healthy meal? A bottle of your favourite cognac? While these certainly affirm self-love, at the…
Always Right is Wrong
Do you have a friend or family member that always thinks they are right? It doesn’t matter what the situation is or how obvious their errors are, they always have…
Worry is not Your Friend!
Now that we are done with the festive season, it’s back to business as usual! Worry may be creeping in about bills, your on-going struggles or how you are going…
January Joy is Possible!
The anticipation for January salaries is probably driving most people insane. Family outings, social gatherings and shopping over the festive season have left people spent. What now? It’s time to…
Be You – Always!
One thing that I struggled to be earlier in life is MYSELF. I always wanted to behave in a way that would be likeable to the other person, especially when…
Why is Change Tough?
Everything around us changes constantly, trees grow; new products enter the market; and, children become adults. In a way we have conditioned ourselves to accept these types of changes because…
Love Is So Much More Than a Good Feeling!
Did you know that you are at your best when you are filled with love? Human beings are wired for love and connection. I’m referring to that deep sense of…
5 things to Focus on to Achieve your New Year’s Resolutions
What’s your new year’s resolution? To lose weight? Get a new job? End a toxic relationship? Statistics show that most of us won’t achieve our goals because at some point…
Give, It’s Good For You!
Its a season of parties, gifts, monetary contributions, get-togethers; for some of us it may be a season of dread and avoidance because the pressure to give is unbearable. Generally…
Follow Your Own Path
For many years of my life I lived up to what my environment expected of me. My parents taught me that education and a job equals happiness. Their template for…
Believe, Even When Nobody Else Does
There are many firsts happening in Africa right now. Nigerian star, Yemi Alade became the first African female artist to reach one million subscribers on her YouTube channel. In just…