Have you ever noticed how external stuff gets way more attention than the inside work?

I suspect it’s because it’s easier to see and measure things like landing a new job or getting a qualification.

But imagine if we celebrated and talked more about the amazing inner work we do.

Like:

“Hey, I’m happy to announce that over the past two years, I’ve grown in self-compassion.”

Or

“I’m pleased to share I’ve stopped playing the blame game and take responsibility for my actions.”

Or

“I have applied for jobs the whole year and I will not give up until I get appointed, please join me in celebrating my resilience and determination.”

Wouldn’t these be powerful statements??

I think our external focus is why we sometimes lose sight of our own greatness.

We focus so much on the external wins that we start comparing ourselves, doubting our abilities, and feeling like we’re not enough.

But the reality is, you’re worthy. Just because you’re human – no qualifying criteria. That’s it!

Don’t get me wrong, landing a new role or qualifying in something is awesome, it takes hard work, commitment and sacrifice to achieve these things.

However, when we shift focus to inner wins, it does more than just boost morale—it changes how we see success:

  • Less materialism: We become less driven by external rewards and start valuing personal growth and fulfillment.
  • Improved mental health: We learn to validate ourselves from within, reducing anxiety, stress, and the constant pressure to perform.
  • Increased confidence: We stop doubting our worth and comparing ourselves to others, embracing who we are and what we’re capable of.
  • Stronger resilience: Inner growth equips us with the strength to navigate setbacks, challenges, and uncertainty with greater ease.
  • Sustainable motivation: When we celebrate our inner progress, our motivation becomes more self-driven and long-lasting, not reliant on external validation.
  • Higher emotional intelligence: As we grow in self-compassion and responsibility, we become more empathetic and emotionally aware, improving our interactions and leadership abilities.
  • A balanced perspective on success: By acknowledging our inner wins, we redefine success as a combination of external achievement and internal peace, creating a more balanced and satisfying life.

Self-worth is the foundation of everything – it’s the key to a happier more fulfilling life.

Please share your inner growth below, let’s celebrate our inner wins.